Soap star's own soapie - Isidingo actor in abortion scandal
ISIDINGO's lead actor Meshack Mavuso is caught in the middle of a love triangle and allegations of having encouraged his mistress to abort their unborn child.
Meshack Mavuso
LIFE IMITATES ART: Meshack Mavuso and his wife Neo. The actor is starring in his own personal drama. Picture taken from www.tvsa.co.zaNaledi didn't choose to be pregnant, Meshack [should] have acted responsibly when he had sex with her
Mavuso is best known for his role as Vusi Moletsane on the SABC3 soapie and was one of the celebrity dancers in the Strictly Come Dancing New Year Special, on SABC2 in 2008.
Mavuso, who is married to Neo, allegedly impregnated a woman last year.
Today Sunday World can reveal that the former Yizo Yizo actor exchanged bodily fluids with Naledi Gcwabe (26), last year without using protection - and the woman conceived his child.
However, a friend of Meshack and Naledi says the actor did not want to be responsible for the sprog, and he ordered her to abort.
"Meshack met Naledi in July last year while he was attending a music festival in Kokstad, KwaZulu-Natal. They had been together for eight months, and in September Naledi fell pregnant with his child.
"Meshack was so scared that his wife was going to find out about his cheating ways so he gave Naledi R1500 to terminate the pregnancy," says one of their friends.
Another insider says Neo found out about the affair and started sending Naledi messages on her cellphone, e-mail and Facebook mailbox.
Sunday World was told thatl that Meshack also called Naledi several times on her cellphone, but she would not answer his calls due to the humiliation she had suffered from Neo's insults.
"At some stage unknown people would phone Naledi and call her a slut and a marriage-wrecker. Due to this, Naledi was hospitalised in October and also two weeks ago because of stress," says an insider.
"Naledi didn't choose to be pregnant, Meshack [should] have acted responsibly when he had sex with her," says a friend.
Sunday World called Meshack on his two cellphones, and also sent text messages but he never bothered to get back to us.
A litany of messages of threats and swearing
IN A text message sent by Meshack to Naledi, he says: "Those girls who are calling u are the wife's of all the man you f***ing."
Naledi responded in anger: "Your sick, your the psycho...what men??? You're so shallow. Now coz I'm standing for myself, I'm a bitch, I'm sleeping with other men? Well sorry to burst your bubble."
Neo retaliated: "Woman I have never inboxed you. You are the one that keeps sending me messages and blocking me so I can't trace you. So stop talking crap. Why wud I call you?
I don't know who the hell you are and tell ur friends to stop harassing me cos I'm happy and don't want to know. If you have or have not been fucking my husband should b my business but you know what right now I don't care. Sacrificed your foetus that was ur call. May God have mercy on you. I hope this is were it ends. Stop sending me msgs and claiming that I'm sending you messages you psycho."
In an e-mail sent by Naledi to Neo on February 5, she said: "Seemingly you've been well informed n updated according to ur inboxes 2 me. I stil dnt get y u inbox me n den deactivate bt stl leave me wif ol ur details afta u curse n degrade me lyk u do. Afta dis e-mail I pray u wil liv me alone n I wil delete every lil thng frm u n act as if dis neva happened.1st of ol my pregnancy has jack shit 2 do wif u, yeah ur hubby impregnated me (on da wikend he went 4 da Ndamase wedding n Malusi Gigaba's party in Ballito), I terminated 4 my own rizons n dez more 2 it dan jst da pregnancy, trust me u dnt wanna knw. So culd u kindly liv me da heck alone now. If u want more lemme knw cz I'd b more dan hepi 2 dish up 4 u cz ur opening a can of worms I'm sure u can't handle. lyk I said dez more 2 it dan mits da eye. I neva wntd it 2 reach dis point bt uv pushed me woman, cum 2 thnk I sacrificed wif my own child cz I neva wntd u 2 knw n nw u do n dis is da pryc I hev 2 pay. Quit calling me wyl u at it plz!"
Three days later Neo sent her messages: "Girls like you make me sick, may you burn in hell for eternity. I've been with my husband 17 years and you're nothing to change that, you're a shell garage to him that's all. Bitch if you're still with my husband I swear i'm going to do something you will regret. This is a warning, I don't want to make promises. Leave my husband alone."
On February 15, Neo took to Facebook: "It has dawn on me that the only reason you are with my husband is due to his celebrity status otherwise he wouldn't be your ideal man. Acting so cheap and low because you love class. What happened to love on its own. Girls like you are sorry excuses for women."
mdakaneb@sundayworld.co.za
Comments
Mar10
Ya relationships neh? I wish we could leave without them so that there won't be so much hatred, deceit and heart breaking.SheilaMokete
Women will never learn. There are a few men who will forceyou to have a relationship with you if you don't wan.Another thing these girls are more interested in having relationships with well-known people(so called celebrities) rather than focusing on their careers and developing themselves(judging by the language she uses).Girls wake up and stop blaming men, she got into this whole thing knowing Meshack is married. And sleeping with men without condoms!!Women material things will get you nowhere you'll only attract the wrong people who will use you and dump you. Learn to say no.Macansi
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NokuthulaShezi
thats true girls please learn the lesson from other people who did same mistake wake upMacansi
Neo, you have been married with Meshack for 17 years?Have you asked yourself, how many mistresses or women Meshack is sleeping with based on his celebrity status you were mentioning to your rival, Naledi who is also the victim of your husband's "too many sins" ?
I feel you have to be cautious and think clearly or even look for proffessional support. The man, Meshack is the master of his game, he is starring in his personal drama. He has successfully managed to lie about the relationship with the mistres,Naledi for months until the matter escalated to the "bun in the oven", which your husband Meshach ordered and finance for it to be terminated under your nose.
Basically, I feel the same celebrity status is now holding you back, it is blinding you to see that your husband has been 'loose' for a while. This is worse than the "Tiger Woods" notorious scandal but atleast Tiger's wife managed to do the right thing after carefuly considering all the facts.
1. What is Meshack saying when you are confronting him about this?
2. How many foetuses your husband, Meshack has ordered and finance the projects for them to be terminated?
3. What about the possibilities of him infecting you with sexually transmitted deseases or even HIV since he has prove himself to be a man who easily engage in unprotected sex continously behind your back until he impregnate the misstres without you knowing about the affair?
Neo, you are also a victim here just like Naledi. You are both the victims of the same man, who happened to be your husband, Meshak who has impregnated Naledi while he is married to you.
I would suggest that you get proffessional help in order to both accept the trauma you have been through as a result of Meshak, Neo's husband. Ladies you must respect each other and each other's loss, in that manner you will learn and support each other as you are both victims of the same man.
Neo, your husband Meshack must be matured and honest enough to respect your marriage and also to understand the importance of playing safe "Condomising" since you are married.
Meshack is fortunate to have an understanding wife like you, Neo. I think he is easily getting away with a very serious offence and I have a feeling that it is not the first time and not the last.
Anyway this is the classic, bigger than the famous golfer's sex scandal, Tiger Woods and it is Proudly South African, Mzansi fo sho.
Belladonna
Well , Naledi Knew that Meshack is Married and why would she be so selfish to agree to sleep with him without using protection....as woman we must protect each other since we cannot keep our hands off other woman's man. Stop playing victim here and show some respect to Neo.""Meshack - Its time you stop your febering bro - you've got so much to loose and respect your marriage please..fight the temptation for the sake of your Family and Bright Future. You made a choice to marry Neo be a husband, your not getting young
"" Neo- Well I cant ask you to divorce your man but all I can say to you is go test and condomise and know a Leopard never changes its spot but in this case as a human he has the opportunity to change..Stop arguing with Naledi - she should have known better.Askied my dear Shit like this happens man cant stay Faithfull but as woman we can protect each other.
ThandekaNkosi
you sure can tell it like it is i just hope that neo get 2 read it nig up!!THANDY
i honestly dont think any body is a victim here, they r both adult whose chose to do hanky panky without a condome , the responsible lies with them both except de wife , why didnt u insist on a condome because most people knows that he is married, the problem wth this girls is that they think they r better than the wives and hope pregnancy will make them wives. honey u were just a willing victim so shut up en grow up because u knew what u were donin stupid ful. the reason u dont want to abort its because of de maintance money nothing elsewell most actors r as broke as a church mouse use yr brain instead of whatsn between yr legs , i pityn dat kid
Thesh
I think you need to re read the story, they say, she had the abortion, and the wife and Meshack are still following her around... She's also not denying that she had an affair with him. Maybe she needs to reveal her reasons for agreeing to the abortion so that you can be happyDiep1
Hey, this is really bad indeed. our so called husbands, sleeps around as if they ask for it but they have it left, right and centre at home. they really let us down when the mistress is pregnant. both parties are responsible here that is so true because they are both adults, but as a mother of his kids accepting that your husband has an outside child, put the wife in another corner of not trusting your husband anymore in life. it is hard to accept this kind of situation and tell yourself that the damage is done. as for the Mavuso, celebrity guys are always on targetas at times Girls throw themselves to them, and as a man.....ThabisileMakhalima
Personally I don't see why the two women should be fighting ,they should work as a team to sort out this Meshack guy who does not seem bothered at all by his actions.Things happen to us (women) because we let them .Meshack should be ashamed of himself for putting his wife through this but she inturn should as well wake up and smell the coffee,some habits never change.It is useless for her to hurt inside alone and take her anger and hurt to the other woman on Facebook.It is up to Neo to allow a man to give her such a heartache.No woman deserves to be cheated on and hurt this way.Naledi sis,don't even start...in the 21st Century you don't go around opening your legs to a man you 'don't know' without using condoms ,you have a future ahead ,what if he was having some STI ? Shame on you Meshack ,do you value your marriage ?Macansi
Thabi, I am with you on this, the ladies shouldn't be fighting. The player has played them and they are now busy fighting and publicly embarrassing themselves while the player seems not to care, he's just relaxing and he is still getting it and the wife is claiming to be still on her side and blaming the mistress she doesn't even know while the player is still comfortable as if nothing has happened.The wife, is denying what happened and somehow feel its easy to fight the mistress rather than having Meshack to account
Belladonna
@ Thabi - Well said my Dearwatchuta
disagree. woman should protect each other. naledi agreed to be with a married man and she has to dance to such music. as for cheating man they are allowed by us woman, so it was no team effort when she agreed to be with another womans man so no team effort required.ReginaMokoena
I honestly feel that this naledi chick was not a victim,cuz they both knew what they were doing. I jst feel for the wife who found out amanyala enziwa u husband.We as weman are foreva in danger cuz these men don use their brains but their digs to think with. Aids wil 4eva spread becuz of ignorance.But cc uzoba strongLadyZee
Aowa bathong,, banna ga ba kgore stru, You got a wife,children!Everything to be content about, and you go and impregnate another woman!!! And some women are sluts, yhooo. "actor exchanged bodily fluids" hahahaha, good one Sowetan.TheMrs01
@macanciwell said...
To the Mrs Mavuso believe you me naledi is not his only mistress they are plenty is sad cos you only know about this one maybe bcos of the preg,,,, where is your pride, why dont you dumb this b@stard,, it's obvious he does'nt have any respect for you and the kids,, real men use condoms,, what scares the most is the world that we are living in people are sick i.e hiv,,, and you the mrs want to turn a blind eye and blame this whole thing on the mistress wake up woman
kudi
@MacansiI wish women and men were like you - also wish Neo can read your comment very carefully and ask for your number call you and ask for advise
carry on brother you are not a distructive person and I like people like you
Macansi
@kudi@TheMrs01
Thank you very much ladies for words of encouragement.
My wish is if we can use such platforms constructively in a manner that we teach each other or learn something from the debates or conversations generated from the real life stories, because such things happens everyday to people around us but we turn to ignore them until we find ourselves in the same situations.
I am hoping no one is offended in any manner by my comments. If someone is somehow offended, my apologies hence my intention was to only share my view on the matter and I have carefully tried to be careful on my choice of words hence I am aware that the matter is sensitive so the parties involved.
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